Welcome Aboard!
I was going to suggest that you post some pictures of yourself, but this gang of crazies will complain if you don't just post the gun....
For the first few weeks, you'll feel like the gun is wearing you. You'll get over that. (After more than 40 years, I still check to see if I forgot it, or managed to have my jacket pop up, or something like that. The trick is to rehearse it so it looks random....)
As the guys & gals have suggested, try it around the house, or at the local gas station, Wal-Mart, etc., until you get used to it. Plan on buying and tossing into the drawer about five holsters for each one you really decide to wear. It's extremely subjective. What works for me, for example, may not be workable for Jake. (I'm about 6'1", 310#. Jake's about the same height, but nowhere near that "width". I can, and do, conceal a small 1911 easily. He can conceal a small Glock about as well, but as we all know, those aren't real anyway....
)My usual recommendation is to buy a bunch of "Uncle Mike" cheapies that look like they may work for you, and then find a good leather replacement for the one(s) that actually work out. The others may end up in the drawer, or for range use, etc.
Do plan on dressing around the gun a bit - most of us guys don't care for "off-body" carry, but women's clothes often don't allow for concealing much of anything. You can, however, find purses that look nice enough, and allow for a discreet "friend" inside. The magic there is in awareness - you're going to have problems presenting the weapon, if necessary, and you MUST keep the thing secure and handy at all times. (Check out "Smart Carry", too. Think "garter belt, without garters, with holster." Sounds silly, but if you've got the figure to wear one, might be a good solution. Draw is very slow, of course, but you may get the BG's full attention while unzipping....
) We have a couple members here who use a diaper bag, btw. It probably helps to have small kids, but.... (McM's got one that looks kinda "what's that?", but nobody would notice, and it is a diaper bag, too, although I think his little one's just about ready to give 'em up.)(Guess it becomes a Lego bag?)
Regards,
my fiance's gun... permanently!
She couldn't even fit a P3at in them things. Of course we all know that now that she is going to "settle down" her style is going to change! 
) who wanted suggestions for carry while wearing "South Florida Casual". Kinda dental floss bikini with a skirt. I wish I'd saved that - it was hilarious. Even a P3AT can be too big.... I think "Smart Carry" was about the only viable solution, but that can still require a very small gun, or longer skirt or more substantial shorts.... Doesn't matter too much hereabouts in the winter, of course, but it's something to think about. 