Hey everyone, I've seen this post on the forum where guys wanted to know if they informed their dates that they were carrying.
Okay now this goes both ways - have any of you ladies been the one who was carrying and had to inform your date that you were carrying? Now that more women are carrying and protecting themselves this opens us up to how it might go over with a non-carrying guy.
My BF and I are both CHL holders and we don't have this issue, but I'd be interested to see if anyone has any experience with this.
Question for the ladies regarding informing your date
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Question for the ladies regarding informing your date
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I am not a lady, but I would guess it would depend on the date. It may not be a typical first-date topic! But I imagine as you start talking about your interests you could steer the conversation towards shooting sports, etc. and bring up the CCW law and see how they react. I just got married a few weeks ago but I had my CHL before we started dating, how it came up is she was at my place and saw my NRA Personal Protection Certificate lovingly framed and hanging on the wall.
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Casey, you mean it would be taboo to mention something like this on a first date?
I was just curious if women ever ran into this, just a little flip-flop on what I'm sure men have had to approach at one time or another with their dates, girlfriends, etc.
I was just curious if women ever ran into this, just a little flip-flop on what I'm sure men have had to approach at one time or another with their dates, girlfriends, etc.
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As long as she isn't packing a bigger gun I guess it would be ok.
You just know she is going to be comparing your gun to the last guys.
Just be safe, no NDs. That will ruin the whole date.
You just know she is going to be comparing your gun to the last guys.
Just be safe, no NDs. That will ruin the whole date.
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There's another point of view here.
The lady's date may be the kind of guy that is the reason that concealed weapons are necessary.
I don't think it would be wise to inform a possible rapist that she's carrying.
Let him know after his pattern of behavior is known.
Just my 2¢
The lady's date may be the kind of guy that is the reason that concealed weapons are necessary.
I don't think it would be wise to inform a possible rapist that she's carrying.
Let him know after his pattern of behavior is known.
Just my 2¢
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The only time it really ought to be a problem is if they would go to a CPZ movie theater or a class D restaurant. Which when dating is likely. I doubt many guys would want to impress her by taking her to Bob Evans.
I haven't had to date in almost 20 years, and from what I heard, younger guys have different attitudes than when I dated. So I don't have any helpful advice.
BUT, there was one poster here who just broke up, and there are many in their 20s who are single. Maybe you can get to know one of them, and you carrying would not be a problem at all. Your first date could be at the local shooting range!
Just a thought.
I haven't had to date in almost 20 years, and from what I heard, younger guys have different attitudes than when I dated. So I don't have any helpful advice.
BUT, there was one poster here who just broke up, and there are many in their 20s who are single. Maybe you can get to know one of them, and you carrying would not be a problem at all. Your first date could be at the local shooting range!
Just a thought.
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